Qider’s write (Part 5)

In episode :  Petua kurangkan sakit perut dan senggugut

Hari ini rasa agak mengah (macam sesak dada) sedikit. Sudah minum air panas,sudah jalan-jalan pun belum hilang. Aku di pejabat sekarang, malas pula mahu melepak di rumah dalam keadaan sekarang (due  14hb depan). Sementara menunggu bos yang sedang hangat bermesyuarat (hangat sebab sampai boleh dengar perkara yang dibincangkan oleh kami di luar bilik), rasa hendak tulis pasal ini.

Aku sebenarnya seorang manusia yang sangat tipikal terhadap ubat moden. Waima sebiji panadol pun, jangan haraplah untuk aku telan. Tambahan pulak, seorang bapa saudaraku adalah pegawai farmasi dan beliau antara yang sangat tidak menggalakkan pengambilan ubat moden ini. Ibuku yang merupakan bekas jururawat pula, sangat menekankan terhadap pengambilan ubat-ubatan ini dan aku adalah anak yang paling degil untuk mengikutinya. Tetapi, bagi aku yang pernah menjalani pembedahan ini, kekecualian diberikan jika berada di hospital atau mempunyai sakit kronik yang memerlukan perskripsi ubatan moden ini oleh doktor dan kita perlu mengambilnya DALAM DOS YANG BETUL DAN TELAH DITETAPKAN. Andaikata cuma demam biasa atau tiada sakit yang pelik/berbahaya di sebalik demam atau batuk atau selesema tersebut, maka bolehlah kita merawat sakit tersebut dengan makanan atau petua-petua tradisi. Contoh lain, jika ada pesakit kanser yang ingin merawat sakitnya dengan makanan tambahan atau kaedah rawatan dengan Al Quran sekalipun, beliau tetap perlu mendapatkan rawatan dan berbincang dengan pegawai perubatan yang merawatnya mengenai ubatan lain yang dimakannya.

Sakit perut

Petua yang ingin aku perturunkan di sini adalah melalui pengalamanku sendiri. Mungkin berbeza terhadap orang lain. Sakit perut sebenarnya disebabkan oleh banyak faktor dan perut sebenarnya tempat berkumpulnya penyakit jika kita makan secara tidak betul. Jadi petua aku lebih kepada sakit perut yang disebabkan salah makan contoh terlebih makan pedas, kembung dan yang sewaktu dengannya. Kadang-kadang perut jadi memulas tetapi bukannya hendak ke tandas pun. Pernah tak rasa begitu? Letak minyak panas pun kadang-kadang tak jalan. Eh, kalau ibu mengandung, mana boleh letak minyak panas pulak kan? Haaaa…oleh itu aku selalu amalkan untuk minum yogurt drink atau yakult atau makan yogurt ketika sakit perut itu menyerang.

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Memang kesannya lambat, agak mengambil masa, mungkin dalam setengah jam kita masih terpaksa berperang dengan rasa sakit tersebut bergantung pada apa yang kita telah makan yang menyebabkan kita sakit perut itu. Tetapi selepas itu ia akan perlahan-lahan hilang. Mungkin selepas itu kita akan perlu ke tandas, tetapi sekurang-kurangnya najis akan menjadi lebih lembut dan penyahtinjaan menjadi lebih selesa. Perut pun selesa.

Senggugut

Aku pernah mengalami sengugut yang agak teruk ketika zaman remaja dahulu. Ada dua petua yang aku amalkan.

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Petua yang pertama, sujud lama sedikit ketika solat. Petua ini aku dapat dari kawan baikku. Beliau juga mempunyai sengugut yang teruk sehinggakan doktor menyarankan pengambilan pil perancang. Dan petua ini sebenarnya diberikan oleh seorang kawan lelaki yang salah faham apabila mendengar beliau mengadu sakit perut (mengadu kat orang lain sebenarnya, encik tu ingat beliau senggugut). Alhamdulillah setelah aku amalkan,senggugut itu hilang terus sehinggalah aku melahirkan si kembar, sakit itu datang semula, sebab sujud pun dah cut short (insaflah oiiii).

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Petua kedua, seminggu sebelum kedatangan haid, aku akan minum atau makan yogurt/yogurt drink. Minuman berais juga adalah penyumbang kepada sakit senggugut yang lebih teruk, tetapi dulu aku sangat menjaga kesihatan,kurang minum minuman berais,berkarbonat dan manis (sekarang hampeh!! Kena insaf dan kawal semula pemakanan ni). Jadi ketika kedatangan haid, selalunya lebih selesa tanpa sakit yang sampai berguling-guling (atau tidur menonggeng berselimut di atas katil sebab sakit). Sebenarnya aku hari-hari minum yogurt drink dulu, selain untuk menghilangkan sakit senggugut, ia juga untuk mengelakkan aku daripada terkena gastrik atau kembung kerana terlambat makan (juga bagus untuk menaikkan mood ceria). Sekarang ini, aku minum Yakult setiap hari sebab ibu mengandung ini cepat lapar dan alang terlambat makan sedikit, kalau tidak pedih ulu hati mesti berangin satu badan. Uhh sangat tidak selesa.

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Makanan boleh jadi punca penyakit jika makan berlebihan atau secara tidak sihat dan boleh jadi ubat jika makan secara sederhana. Pilihan di tangan kita. Sentiasalah minum air suam sebanyak-banyaknya.

Selamat mencuba!

Nota : petua ini sesuai untuk sakit perut dan senggugut yang bukan disebabkan oleh sakit kronik. Terima kasih

Qider Firdaus

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Qider’s write (Part 4)

In episode :  A comeback.. (hoping it is) and updated

Reading my last entry, I found it a bit boring. I am not satisfied with what I wrote. Let just say, from that I conclude, my Malay writing had become worst, the result for not writing for such a long period. I want to make the last entry as fun and interesting as possible, but as I wrote until the last word, I lost the ‘right word’ that I usually have which usually made my entry fun and interesting (this blog is for my own reading, so there’s no need to throw up upon this statement ya). I think this is the sign that I must write more often in Malay and try as much as possible not to blogwalking much as that will influence my style of writing. I must gain back my own identity in blog writing like I used to have before. Or else, this blog, the content in it, will just be lame because it has no difference from others (because I want to be different, being different will reflect you, your identity).

Amirez claimed that my blog seem to move to be a parenting blog. I beg to differ.  But maybe, his claim reflect that my blog has been nowhere, has no purpose anymore as I tend to write just for my blog to be updated not because of the passion. Honestly, the entry is published because ‘everyone publish about their children!’, ‘just publish anything!’ and ‘I really want to write about so much things, but I seem lost!’. And maybe, one of the major reason why my last entry has become uninteresting to read. Even so, thanks to that entry (upon publish that and while writing it, I found it feel like such a burden to me), I was invited to a ‘gathering untuk  geng-geng kembar’. Doesn’t it feel like, well somehow that boring entry brought something after all heheh. So, I will not deleted it, but if I have ‘time and passion’, I will re-edit the entry.

My blog, this blog, I will make some improvement, or the right word is ‘editing’. I will go through all my entries and maybe there are some that will become unpublished. Reading the last entry too, make me realize that I need to put the right illustration or photo which will align to what I write, what I try to story about. There are so many things to story about and lately there are many things that happened around me. It just that, I need strength to pull myself together and start writing again. A battle inside ourselves is very hard to win, when emotion takes control.  Hoping to become more balance with rational and emotion. It’s already late for my 3^rd pumping session. So my pen end here, Ja..

*smile

Qider Firdaus

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Be brave with your life

This morning as usual both of us were late to the office. I don’t care (even though my hubby suggested that we take emergency half day leave) I still had to go. Honestly said, I had no leave left given that I used all of them during our trip to Beijing last month. Hey, no worry, I am trying to write about that trip. On our way (my hubby’s driving, of course), I prayed that God will make me stronger with this life’s, my life’s  tests. I hope that He will Help me get through all of them. I felt quite calm after that which I had never experienced during this few months period. And then I realized one thing, last few weeks, I kept praying for no test, hoping it will be trouble-free-day. I am afraid to face any ‘situation’, as normally, it will ended up me easily get mad or sad. To make the situation worst, I got blank on how to make it up again. It drives me crazy.

On Friday morning last week, I was so dejected (pinjam word Achique). As I did my task (although not to my boss’ expectation, lain disuruh lain yang aku buat), running simulation on the laptop, I stole some time reading articles on my fave web. Among few that I read (actually 10 and more, sebab tu kerja lambat siap, balik pun lambat), I come across those which older ones that I already read before I got married. Suddenly, I realized that I wanted to make it up. Only until the very end of office hours then I somehow (without really thinking) apologized for my wrong doing with him (thru Skype, kalau nak tunggu bersuara sampai sudah tak minta maaf). After that, I am cheerful again (even though we arrived home very late, almost the time for breaking fast that day). Yes, apologize and forgiveness work wonders in life. The last two days (the weekend), the house was very lively (thanks to my sister who spend the weekend with us, helping us tidy up the house).

I remember, I once wrote that when we asked God to make us wiser, stronger and patience in life, doesn’t He then gave us the hardship so that when we get through the hardship, we will become more stronger, more wiser and more patience? I eat my own words (sigh). I now understand that actually I rejected to accept the hardship, making me narrowed minded and that’s why resulted me being constantly driven by emotion. Bad emotions. Allowing the negative charges to fully install within my mind. I was chicken out to take the challenge. I want to be brave again. I want to be ME again. It is ME who make my life to be what my heart desire, so if I want my life to be happy, blissful, I must be happy first.

My source of laughter

Have a blissful and happy life guys.

Qider Firdaus

Bukit Jalil

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Go! Go! Qider…..

My wedding, the trip to Beijing, the memories that I would love to cherish, the lessons that I gained in the present even my visit to my cousin’s place at Melaka meeting my three favourite Power Rangers yesterday are those thing I would love to write and share here.  However, given to the recent situation, which I am so emotionally influenced, it is hard for me to even open my laptop.

continually sadness making my life horribly unstable

I am so weak (emotionally) this few weeks. Last night, I felt that I had enough of crying endlessly, keeping myself in sadness, easily bursting in anger but failed to talk about it and making those who love me worried bout me. It was the first time ever I made a decision not to call or even sms to my beloved ‘beruang kuning’ and ‘ibtisam_gurl’. I wanted to be their source of comfort, not the other way around.

I just want a normal conversation. I cannot live in the world full of loneliness, so quiet and where I have no gut to pluck the courage to utter even a word. My thoughts, everything that I want to say was keep within me until I myself can hear loudly in my head that my heart keep talking endlessly.

Gambaru Qider-chan!

I need to free myself, my mind, increase my motivation so that I can be happy again. I don’t want to be bothered anymore with the quiet life. I know that I have a commitment in that quiet life but if this keep going on, I will ended myself always miserable. I must change the atmosphere to be what I wanted it to be. Energetic, happy and lively!

Qider Firdaus

Bukit Jalil

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Why I write in the first place?

I want to update about my Cuti-cuti Malaysia at Perhentian Island weeks ago but since the laptop (the material is in the laptop, I am using desktop right now) was borrowed for Humidity Sensor’s Testing (for quite few days mind you..*sigh), so the entry is pending again. As I must update at least sumthing here, so here goes thing that had been in my mind long enough. I write this to those who’ve been with me until now, my whole life.

I love language. From my love towards language, comes my liking to read. When I read and understand what I read, I tend to discuss (speak) what I read, and the person who encouraged me to do so is my beloved dad. He, after all, is the first person who taught me the value of talking informatively. Then when I started my secondary, I began to diary writing. I wrote it in English as so to avoid my siblings reading them. The diaries full of emotions, what I did that day and things I wanted to remember my whole life. When I lost the affection of writing diaries and started blogging, I realized I must benefit myself and others fully using this platform.

I really don't want to think..

So, I come to this question, why I write in the first place? First of all, this actually the archive for my siblings, my family, my future husband and future kids to know who actually Qider Firdaus is. Why she love to be different from others? Why she seems to think fully of herself all the time? Why she talks a lot about her siblings like 24/7? Why she pride having few girlfriends and boyfriends? Why she so much to be independent? What actually she had in her head? And a lot more questions why she like this and like that. So please, to whom it may concern, make the full use of all the entries here.

I didn’t write to show that I am so intelligent because I read Time (sekarang dah tak boleh baca), Newsweek whatever and how by reading Dewan Ekonomi can calm me down. I know it sound ridiculous (“..reading a very analytic magazine can calm her down? Get real!” One might say that). But honestly, I just want to be a human. Human being who have been gifted with brain by her Creator. I want to exercise my brain and to be sure on how to guide my thinking positively. So that, I will less jump to the worst conclusion and be fully happy with my life even though I don’t like the recent situation.

I really want to know what my siblings have to say about me. Do they love to have me around? Do they really felt hurt with my ‘spice’ words?  So, another reason that I write is because this is actually the medium for me to express how much I love all of them, how much they meant to me and I proud having them in my life. How I still remember moments I spent with them. What we usually did. Even though they are all grown ups now, I still want to cling to them and involved in mimicking manga that we love to read. Also my lil’ brother who prefer playstation than manga, my concern towards him never waver from the moment I learnt that my mum had a baby boy instead of baby girl. How much far the distance, how much less the communication, I care for you guys happiness more than mine.

I wrote about religion (and my experiences wif non-Muslims) not to show I am so solehah or ‘alim’ or because I used to be the religion-based school’s student, but I want to share about what I understand and clear some wrong presumption from others. I love reading what Ust Hasrizal, Ust Pahrol and Sis Zabrina (just to name a few) write. It is not because they ‘sound’ like me, but they’re so inspiring. I want to be like that, inspires people, make people feel good bout their life and their ownself. When I behave unlikely, which meant to say, not what your first judgment bout me, please bear in mind, I am just a human being. I can’t help myself not to do wrong things. Please correct me when I am wrong. Please explained to me and asked why I do so. Please, see me as a human, not somebody who too perfect to do such silly mistakes.

Like one of my college pal ever said to me, he loves reading things that I wrote bout my life because seems that I live a very interesting life. It really encourages me to write more and to say this to him:

‘It’s not that I had a very interesting life, but it is me who think and make my life interesting despite of so many spiteful moments’

One last reason why I write, is for you out there, finding your own stories, your own happy moments in my stories etched in every entries. Everyone deserves having his/her own happiness but then the happiness start with the person itself. When you love your life, when you love yourself, it shows within you and you know it, don’t you?

Qider Firdaus

Bukit Jalil

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